In the ocean of love, there are always too many waves, we think that love is very deep and true, in fact, love is very shallow and light, a bad word, will severely hurt each other’s heart. We are just a clown on the stage of love, even if no matter how gorgeous the end, the clown is still hurt.
Love is a book that needs to be understood in order not to be hurt, people who think they are smart put themselves behind the love, behind the love also harvest happiness and happiness, and some people for the so-called love not only do not care about her actions, but also pay for her everything, even precious life.
Although love does not care about who is right and who is wrong, who pays more or less, but true love is not able to love the person you like and make her happy?
In love, we are often carried away by the interests, in order to so-called happiness, often doubt that she (he) can bring their own happiness, is not worthy of their own life to love the person. In fact, there is no real happiness in the world of love, there is no true love, true love is just a fairy tale in the legend, so since it is just a fairy tale, why should we strive for it?
The diversified society gives us too many opportunities to love each other, perhaps a gentle turn around, you will meet the person you want to love in your life, and get a heavy love. Don’t think of love so simple, don’t think of love very difficult, if it is really yours, can not take away; It’s not yours, no matter how much you pay; Even if we got it, we still couldn’t keep it.
In front of love, it is not we who control love, but love can control us. Only when we adapt to love and cherish each other, happiness can be longer. If it is still simple love, single-minded, love will sooner or later hide in their own hands. Breaking up is often an accidental thing, in fact, it is an inevitable outcome, because we are too strong and too confident, think that you can accept each other all of everything, think that only you can give her happiness, in fact, it is not so. When you leave her, there will be others to accompany her side, make her happy, when you do not love her, she will fall in love with another person who should not love, choose to forget you.
Remember a friend said something like this: don’t believe in love, not to believe in vows with her, because fairy tales are deceptive, if you believe in fairy tales love, then you are the stupidest person in the world.
Maybe it was because he was in a bad mood and said some such unreasonable remarks, but from his sad voice, I could tell that he was serious.
I felt curious, so I asked him: How can you be so sure?
He smiled at me contemptuously, as if to laugh at my naivete and simplicity, and then said to me: not dare to say so, but have I really experienced it, only really experienced I dare to say so.
Then he started telling me their story…
She and I have been in love for more than six years since we met, and we have been quarreling, but we have never proposed to break up, because we have been deeply in love with each other.
When we were waiting for a year to get married, she suddenly broke up, and her girlfriend said that if she wanted to marry her, she had to buy a house, which was the condition her mother wanted for her, and it was also the guarantee for her future life.
I was very angry when I heard that, because it is very difficult to buy a house in the city in the countryside, not to say that my parents are old and poor health, I said to her: your mother let me buy a house to protect your life, then I have been out for so many years, who can protect my life? I married you, not your mother!
That time, we quarreled for more than three hours, and finally she cried and scolded me and told me to go away, I didn’t say anything, and left quietly alone, facing the familiar street I felt strange, I knew that she really had left me.
Later, she also called me and said that I should not worry about my feelings, I also know that I made a mistake, should not be so impulsive to scold her, also apologized to her, but we did not reconcile, because I know that as a man, can not make the beloved woman happy, that is not called love, I let her really want to talk to me when I come to me, I will marry you when I have money, But she hasn’t come back yet…
Speaking of this, his tears began to keep falling, and I saw not only a fragile side of a man, but also to see a man really love a woman waiting for her when the real reveal, although as he said so silly, but I feel that his stupid is really valuable, whether he is not love or not, can wait for a person who does not know how long to come back is a touch.