Listen to a story: a man invited several friends to his home, the man smoked one cigarette after another. Her wife opened the window quietly, without words. A friend quietly asked the wife, why don’t you stop him smoking, smoking is harmful to health. The wife smiled and said that smoking was happy for him, and that if he could live eighty years, I would rather he lived sixty happy years than twenty unhappy years. This let the man know, he gave up smoking. Friends asked him why he could quit smoking so easily, he said, I have such a good wife, why should I choose to live 20 years less?
People who love each other should know how to cherish love, which is a mutual understanding between the heart and the soul, and it can not be whitewashed by too many words. People who really love each other, will pay for the emotion without concern, the only hope is that each other’s pain; People who really love each other will always be concerned about each other everywhere, and give him (her) care and consideration; True love of people, an action, a look, can understand, the tacit understanding of each other is better than all the material joy. Love, because of loyalty and focus, because of focus and intoxicating, because intoxicating and selfless, because selfless and pure. Through the ages, the interpretation of how many songs and tears of love stories, so that the world with emotion, always thinking of doing so a protagonist, eager to find a bosom friend and their own life. At least there has been an unforgettable love, there is no shake this life. But how many people can meet the right person at the right time? Is met, do not know how to cherish, will also miss.
Love is a kind of equal getting along, a natural continuation of emotion, it needs a mutual understanding and respect. If only one party gives, love will lose the right direction, and even develop into a deformity, and finally painted with a sad color. Some emotions go wrong from the beginning, because of love and give. Habits developed over time make some people feel entitled to each other’s love and affection. So he is no longer moved, let alone reciprocated with the same love. Love is not an exchange of equal value, it has no fair chips, but it is like a balance, the weights at both ends are unequal, it will tilt, when the difference is too large, it will lose its center of gravity. Some people are very tired and exhausted in the siege of marriage, but the existence of responsibility and sense of righteousness, they still resolutely support it; Some people really find a warm and happy home in marriage, perhaps their life is not very rich, but they have the most precious wealth – happiness from the heart. In fact, happiness is very simple, there is a language cloud: marriage needs business. Indeed, good operator, will harvest happiness; If you are not good at operating, you can only get bitter fruit. And the essence of a good marriage is understanding each other.
Love is a beautiful but perishable epiphyllum, only the heart to water, in order to open fragrant flowers. Liu Ruoying in “Later” there is a lyric sung very well, some people, once missed no longer. In our sigh “get do not cherish, lose know its precious” at the same time, Yan Shu in the “in the Wash Xi sand” that sentence “as pity to take the present person” whether to give us a deep enlightenment? The triviality of life often makes us ignore our lover, and we always find many reasons to justify and excuse ourselves. Some people, even make emotional harm behavior, have more than one emotion at the same time, but also beautiful name: love the new and not hate the old.
Truly love a person, can be selfless to pay, but love is exclusive, from this point of view, love is also selfish. A person who values love and righteousness cannot love two people at the same time. In one’s life, one can love many people, but it will never be at the same stage. For various reasons, different stages, there may be different emotions, as long as we treat with heart, we can have no regrets. Life can be dull or interesting, depending on our attitude towards life. Love is like a string of beads. If you break one place, the beads fall all over the place. With careful care, the beads will shine; Careless, beads will scatter invisible. Just like the man in the story, if he does not understand his wife’s love, then he will not quit his favorite cigarette.
Love, need to know, know how to care, know how to be considerate, know how to pay all for love. Only know, love can be more loving; Only know, love more warm infinite; Only understanding, love can experience new